Why do we shout instead of speak when we are angry?
Because when we angry,
our hearts drift apart.
To mask the distance we felt,
we instinctively shout instead of speak so the other party can hear us.
But as we shout,
we get angrier.
And we felt drift apart further.
So we shout even louder....
It is the opposite when we are in love.
Not only we do not shout,
we whisper into each other.
Why?
This is because out hearts are very close,
almost never apart.
As our love deepen,
we reach a state of communication where is no need for words.
We understand each other well enough just by exchanging look!
Therefore,
when we are angrier,
do not speak words that will make our hearts drift apart.
Wait a few days.
When you feel your hearts are no longer foar apart,
pick up the conversation and continue from there.
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